I’ve long left an 8am to 8pm stressful job to do the things I WANT to do. Not that I didn’t enjoy my banking career. But 27 years is enough, with the last 2 years not as exciting nor enjoyable as the first 25. Besides, I have long planned an early retirement. So I worked like a horse, burned myself out, and decided to quit at 47 years old.

“Married Man’s Trail” in Ketchikan, Alaska. Allegedly, the path taken by men seeking “pleasure” after a visit to the town’s brothel.
Two weeks after my self-imposed retirement, there were offers to tempt me to make a 2nd stab either in the same field or in a career completely different from what I used to do. It wasn’t in the plan. Nor in my destiny. It’s been 13 years now. And I’ve since made journals of my travel adventures, musings and ramblings.
I have travelled. Slept and got off the bed way too late. Enjoyed my breakfasts. Met my friends more leisurely and more frequently. Read more books. And blogged. I like blogging if only so I keep “records” of my adventures. For me, it’s no different from my diaries. Reminders of what I’ve enjoyed and the stuff that rendered me nostalgic. Sentimental, even.
You can say blogging allowed me to express myself. Or remind me of the trips I made, the food I ate, the new friends I’ve met. They’d be my reminders when I’ve grown tired of walking mindlessly, seeking adventures or just growing weak on the knees to navigate a few meters. BUT IT IS MORE THAN JUST PRESERVING THE MEMORIES. Cliche that it is, you can say it’s the journey more than the destination.
Let me explain. I have been writing since I knew how to use a pen. The best childhood gifts for me consisted of diaries, books and fancy stationery. My mother found a penpal for me since I grew tired of playing with my dolls. BUT I NEVER EVER HANDLED A CAMERA, NOR OWNED ONE, TILL I WAS IN MY 40’s. My earlier travels went undocumented. Visually, that is. My family cannot understand how I can visit Europe to spend 6 months there on a borrowed camera. Worse, I scrimped on the shots and only had a few to show. Mostly of landscapes without moΓ.
I still don’t take as many shots, especially of myself. Nor do I own any of those humongous DSLRs. But I do enjoy snapping photos now. With pen and camera, I AM NOW MORE APPRECIATIVE OF DETAILS I WOULD HAVE EASILY DISMISSED BEFORE. A rainbow. Children at play. A bubbling brook. An insect. Flower details. I am happy with my amateurish photography skills. Just a bit jealous whenever I find stunning photography especially of places I’ve been to. “Why didn’t i take a shot from that angle?” ….. I ask myself.
I don’t take shots to display any photography skill. My earlier blogs will tell you that. Modesty aside, my more recent blogs have better photos. The “journey” made me pay more attention to details. I enjoy human interest shots best, but I’m too slow to capture many lovely moments. Thank God my iPhone is ever-handy and takes quite decent shots, or I would have missed a lot more. So yeah….. I blog to express myself. To chronicle my “highs”, and to capture those memories too.
You’re an inspiration, Tita Lili! I would love to be doing what you are doing now, when I reach my retirement age: enjoying life to the fullest!
Thank you for the kind words. Keep writing too. It’s one good therapy and it’s free!
Ive been to Corregidor last December and it was so awesome. I still fail to make an article about my Media tour last December. But I will as soon as I get available. You are becoming my inspiration. π
Thanks for dropping by, Lara. December is NOT too long ago. You can still write your Corregidor experience. Believe it or not, i have a few blgs written 10+ years after the trip. They’re good memories!
You worked for 27 years and decided to take an early retirement at 47 – good for you!
Best decidion I ever made!
Your pictures are lovely, even without a huge DSL! Great thoughts on why you blog, too.
Thank you, Donna. Like a cam, blogs are good memory catchers too!
your blog inspired me to travel more … and enjoy life… i also love to travel and just starting to share my experiences.. even though some travel blogs of mine have been too old.. but i guess never too late to share our experiences… What is stopping me sometimes to travel is time… so many things to do.. yet so little time to spare… Your Travel blog has inspired me make more time and enjoy life at its best… Thank you for sharing your experiences.. happy travelling.. and btw, your photoshots are great..
How delightful to hear from a fellow blogger. Thank you for the kind words. That inspiration can only be found in your heart. Keep writing. It feeds the soul!
Thanks for inspiring me.. I will keep writing..:) trying my best coz am not that good in writing..:)
I have to stop and remind myself to read your blogs more often. It’s great to learn more about you since we just recently reconnected again. “Make a path for life, ” I always say. Your blogs remind me to do so. Thanks.
“i blog to express myself” – exactly the same sentiments i have! and to keep myself entertained for the day when trying to remember both places and details will be difficult to do π. oh, you should have endeavoured to shoot more pictures early on to freeze both time and place. no matter, the photos you have are great and enhance your stories more. like labuyo on the bicol express! π
Mahal pa-develop nung pre-digital time π© pero natawa ako sa labuyo on Bicol express hahaha
nakaka-inspire po kayo ma’am. good luck po sa buhay retirado. God bless po